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A journey of self-discovery, wonder, and healing.

With warmth, humor, and unflinching honesty, 23 Dates with My Dead Dad invites a closer look at the unexpected journey of synchronicity in Corey McAuliffe’s memoir.

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What if death is not an ending, but a doorway to a more profound connection?

When Corey McAuliffe’s father died, she thought their cherished monthly dates would end forever. But when the number 23 began appearing everywhere—on receipts, clocks, and even trail markers—Corey realized her father was still reaching out. What followed was a journey unlike anything she could have imagined.

Through unexpected signs, quiet spiritual practices, and moments of startling synchronicity, Corey discovered a way to keep the conversation going with her dad—whether on nature hikes, winding city streets, or road trips that felt guided by something more than chance. Along the way, she faced the challenges of a pandemic, a PhD defense, and a life-altering diagnosis, each moment further illuminated by her father’s presence and wisdom from beyond the veil.

From unraveling questions she’d carried for her entire life to finally tracing her family’s roots in Ireland, Corey’s story is one of self-discovery, wonder, and healing. With warmth, humor, and unflinching honesty, 23 Dates with My Dead Dad invites us to see grief not as a final goodbye, but as an opportunity to love and listen to our departed loved ones in new, unexpected ways.

Doug McAuliffe sits at a dining room table with his arm around a toddler Corey at his left.
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An adult Corey sits with an older Doug at her left.

  • “This book doesn’t just talk about grief; it invites it to dinner, laughs with it, argues with it, and loves it anyway.”

    — Jonni Gray, PhD

      Transpersonal Psychologist and Soul-Based Grief Companion (drjonni.com)

  • “A genuine page-turner, I devoured this book in one sitting. Anyone who loves a twisting tale about a woman’s spiritual quest will enjoy the journey.”

    — Carmen Spagnola

         Author of The Spirited Kitchen and Spells for the Apocalyspe; Founder of The Numinous Network

  • “With this book, Corey elegantly reveals the sacredness of everyday life, in simple and intimate ways.”

    — Shannon Waters, MD

         Public Health and Preventative Medicine Physician; Author of Coming Together: Journeys of the Water Cycle

  • “If you are somebody who believes in an energy or power supporting us beyond what is observed in the seen world (or someone who is curious about this possibility) especially in the wake of loss of a loved one, this book quite possibly has come to you by divine intervention."

    — Taraneh Erfan

    Registered Clinical Counsellor, Poet, and Facilitator; Author of Conscious Grieving: the Path of Awakening Through Loss

Where to Get Your Copy:

  • One of the most powerful ways to support this book and your community is to request it at your local library. Ask your library to order:

    • Paperback

    • eBook

    • Audiobook (coming late January)

    When your library brings it in, you get access for free, and so do many other readers who might not otherwise be able to purchase a copy.

    To request it, go to your local library’s website and look for a form like “Suggest a purchase,” “Title request,” or “Recommend a title.” Then enter:

    • Title: 23 Dates with My Dead Dad

    • Author: Corey McAuliffe

    • Publisher: FriesenPress

    • Format(s): paperback (ISBN: 9781038351234), eBook (ISBN: 9781038351258), and (soon – late January) audiobook

    If your library still accepts in-person or phone requests, you can share the same information with a librarian at the desk.

  • If you’re nearby, the very best place to buy the book is directly from me (Vancouver) or my mom (greater Portland area):

    • Lowest cost (no shipping available)

    • I receive the highest share of the proceeds

    • Signed copies are often possible

    👉 I’ll include details on how to purchase directly (events, local pick-up, or friends holding copies) on this page. You can also sign up for my newsletter below or contact me directly to coordinate a purchase!

  • Best Everyday Option: Indigo

    For most Canadian readers, Indigo will be the simplest and most affordable option for paperbacks:

    • Indigo / Chapters / Coles (online via Indigo.ca)

    • Free shipping over $49 CAD or free in-store pick-up

    • Consistent pricing and availability

    FriesenPress Bookstore (publisher)

    • Great for eBooks – an easy place to purchase digital copies.

    • Print (paperback & hardcover) is also available, but shipping within Canada is often about as much as the book itself, so it’s usually not the lowest-cost print option.

    ***A Note About Amazon.ca:

    The book is currently sold on Amazon.ca through a third-party seller:

    • The price is set by that seller, not by me or my publisher.

    • It is currently much higher than the approved cover price.

    If you see an unusually high price on Amazon.ca, please check Indigo, FriesenPress, or your local indie bookstore instead.

  • (lowest-cost in-person options after buying directly from me)

    Because these shops often carry the book on consignment, they frequently offer the lowest in-person price.

    Coming soon:

    More to come…

    Special orders from local indie bookstores (Canada):
    Many Canadian bookstores can special-order the book through their distributor. Right now, those orders route through a US-based supplier, so the final price is often higher than the options above. I’m working on finding a Canadian wholesale distributor to make this more affordable. If you love supporting your local shop and don’t mind paying a bit more, they can usually bring it in for you.

    • Powell’s Books Online – A beloved independent bookstore; a beautiful choice if you prefer to support local (paperback only).

    • Bookshop.org – Supports independent bookstores while offering easy online ordering and shipping (paperback and hardcover).

    • Barnes & Noble Online – Offers paperback, hardcover, and eBook options.

    • FriesenPress Bookstore (publisher) – Great for eBooks and also offers paperback and hardcover; shipping can be on the higher side, so it’s not always the cheapest for print.

    • Amazon.com – Available if this is your most convenient option.

  • Coming soon … stay tuned! (And sign up for updates!)

  • For readers outside Canada and the US, you can find the book through several global retailers:

    • AbeBooks (global) – International shipping; widely used across Europe, Asia, and Australia.

    • Alibris (global) – Multiple shipping options worldwide.

    • Bol.com (Europe) – A major online retailer in the Netherlands and Belgium, with shipping to surrounding countries.

    eBook Platforms (Worldwide)

    eBook versions are available globally through all major digital platforms for ease and accessibility.

Where to Get Your Copy:

✨ Start with Your Local Library ✨

One of the most powerful ways to support this book and your community is to request it at your local library. Ask your library to order: Paperback, eBook, or Audiobook (coming late January). When your library brings it in, you get access for free, and so do many other readers who might not otherwise be able to purchase a copy.

To request the book:

Go to your local library’s website and look for a form like “Suggest a purchase,” “Title request,” or “Recommend a title.” Then enter:

  • Title: 23 Dates with My Dead Dad

  • Author: Corey McAuliffe

  • Publisher: FriesenPress

  • Format(s): paperback (ISBN: 9781038351234), eBook (ISBN: 9781038351258), and (soon – late January) audiobook

If your library still accepts in-person or phone requests, you can share the same information with a librarian at the desk.

🩶 Buying Directly from Me or My Mom 🩶

(best way to order locally!)

If you’re nearby, the very best place to buy the book is directly from me (Vancouver) or my mom (outside of Portland):

  • Usually the lowest cost (no shipping)

  • I receive the highest share of the proceeds

  • Signed copies are often possible

👉 I’ll include details on how to purchase directly (events, local pick-up, or friends holding copies) on this page. You can also sign up for my newsletter below or contact me directly to coordinate a purchase!

Corey sits at a table backlight by a window, smiling with her chin in her hand. Her laptop rests in front of her.

ABOUT COREY McAULIFFE:

“My memoir is a weaving of loss, synchronicity, and ancestral healing that invites readers to find meaning even in the midst of uncertainty.

Just as my academic work bridges research, policy, and practice, my personal work aims to create tethers of accessibility and hope for anyone navigating life’s surprising disruptions.”

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